Dr. Erin Attaway Dr. Erin Attaway

FOMO vs JOMO

In today’s world of social media language, we have all learned about FOMO, or the Fear Of Missing Out. I have to admit, this one is pretty handy.

Fear of missing out has likely increased for most of us, since the rise of social media and the ability to make the most boring and uninspired events look larger than life. It’s amazing what an angle can do for a scene.

Personally, when I’m having the time of my life I’m unlikely to capture it on film. When I’m in the moment I just don’t think to stop and film. So many other people are taking pics and videos that I’m sure the posts will be made, and all I have to do is enjoy them. As a result, I’m rarely ever in photographs. HA! That’s part of my MO, I love anonymity.

I notice FOMO creeping in at times, but many other people suffer it constantly. The need to be present, be a part of it, (Whatever it is), be IN the photos, is too great to say no.

The downside is that constant busyness and social engagement are exhausting.

I saw a new acronym that we should jump on and make a trend. JOMO. Joy Of Missing Out.

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